Haridwar and Rishikesh – Hari Om!

March 22 – 28, 2019 

We took an early morning express train to Haridwar, one of the holiest cities in the Hindu faith. It is where the Ganges exits the Himalaya, and per the legend, is where Vishnu is said to have dropped divine nectar. Still sleep-deprived, we napped the afternoon away before heading out to the Har-ki-Pairi Ghat. A ghat is a set of steps leading down into a body of water that allows for bathing (very common on the Ganges). We had read about a nightly ceremony where pilgrims send candle lit offerings down the river and were curious to check it out. We walked through narrow bazaar streets down to the Ganges, crossing a bridge and walking along a broad sidewalk along the river. Ganges water is holy, so people selling containers (for takeaway) were common. The crowd thickened as we approached the ghat and we arrived at sunset with a ceremony in full swing. The steps along the river were packed. The current was pretty swift, so people clung to chains a few feet out as they submerged themselves in the water. Three or four barbers sat on the ground shaving heads, maybe as part of a cleansing ritual? There was some call and response chanting, and after sunset, fires were lit in large bowls and ceremonially passed around the crowd. A procession of small colorful ornate palanquins carrying statues and images of deities marched past. There weren’t many westerners and we got propositioned for a number of selfies. I have yet to get paid for any of them, though I do ask. It was a festive and enjoyable atmosphere. 

The next morning we headed to Rishikesh, the “yoga capital of the world”, to stay at Anand Prakash Yoga Ashram for five days. We didn’t really know what to expect, but wanted to try out the experience. We knew we’d get three meals a day and that there was a pretty extensive daily schedule including 3 hours of yoga. There was a dress code of light colored fabrics “to preserve the Sattvik energy”, covered shoulders, and nothing too tight. There goes my whole yoga wardrobe. We arrived right before lunch, filing into the group dining hall at the ringing of the meal bell, grabbing steel plates, cups, and spoons from a rack on the way in. We sat in rows on the floor in front of small tables. Serving staff walked around with large buckets of food and quickly dished out rice, dal, vegetable curry, and chapati. Ghee, coconut oil, or olive oil could be added for some flavor and calories, as otherwise the food was very simple and light compared with most of the restaurant food we’d been eating. (Also, not spicy!) After the food was dished we all joined in a simple mantra in Hindi about the singular divinity in all things, including the food and those who eat it. Meal finished, we cleaned up after ourselves, recycling food scraps for the cows and washing our dishes before putting them back in the racks. 
Now that we were properly introduced to ashram life, we walked along one of the main roads to buy what we began to call our cult uniforms: all white/light colored shirts and loose-fitting pants. We were dressed appropriately for evening yoga. Yoga here is based on Akhanda yoga, which is most notable for calling down dog mountain pose. During free time people would hang out in several small seating areas spread throughout the ashram, chatting with each other or on their phones using the free wi-fi. It’s a very western ashram, catering almost exclusively to western clientele. The rooms all have 2-3 twin sized beds and a private bathroom in them. Tim and I got one to ourselves, which is nice, but solo travelers share rooms. 

A typical day: Silence until after breakfast. The wake up bell rings at 5:00 am. Guided meditation starts at 5:20 am, with a short break before yoga from 6:00–7 :30 am. Then there’s fire puja (singing/chanting around the fire) 7:50-8:20, then the bell rings for breakfast at 8:30 am. Free time until lunch at 12:30 pm, then an afternoon yoga session at 4:00 pm and dinner at 6:00 pm. On Tues/Thurs there’s a Kirtan ceremony (another drum circle) in the evening, and Mon/Weds/Fri are silent dinners. We went to most of the yoga sessions, and a few of the meditations, but otherwise ashram life didn’t really suit us. We mostly spent the days reading, napping, and eating. A nice few days, don’t get me wrong! Just no big spiritual awakenings. One thing that struck me, there’s a phrase that’s used frequently in the ashram and around Rishikesh: “hari om”. It seemed to mean thank you, or welcome, or something. On the third day I asked someone who had been here for a while what it meant, and she didn’t know. She turned to the guy next to her and asked him, and he didn’t know either. “It’s just something we say.” Hmm. Well, at least we tried it! 

One day we skipped lunch for a nearby cooking class at Cooking Masala, which was great. We learned about the “mother sauce” for all red curries and made garlic naan, butter paneer masala, aloo ghobi, and chai tea. Did you know the creaminess of butter masala dishes is not cream but blended cashews and raisins?? After class we walked down to the famous suspension bridges of Rishikesh in the afternoon and finally submerged ourselves in the divine water of the Ganges, fresh from the Himalayas. A few locals in the water laughed with us as we recovered from the icy shock. 
Tim dunking in the Ganges
Our time in India is coming to a close. We spent about 6 weeks here in total, and saw a good bit of the country. However, India truly is massive and has such rich cultural diversity, I think it’s true when people say you could spend a lifetime and still not see it all. Also, this may be a premature celebration since we still have 36 hours in the country, but neither Tim nor I sh*t our pants. Hari om! 

Next up: Uzbekistan.

Haridwar

Har-Ki-Pairi Ghat

Rishikesh (Laxman Jhula area)

 Anand Prakash Yoga Ashram

Fire Puja ceremony, held every morning

Cooking Masala Cooking Class

Delhi Redux – Holi Moly!

March 19-22, 2019 

Our second time through Delhi gave us a glimpse of an entirely different side of the city. We were staying in a pleasant neighborhood near a yellow line metro station about 30 minutes south of the city center, where before we were in the chaotic, cramped, and dirty alleys of Paharganj. Wide sidewalks were lined with upscale salons and restaurants. We took a break from sight-seeing, instead getting a haircut, shopping at H&M, and seeing Captain Marvel (in English) at a nearby movie theater. The movie experience was similar to the US, just cheaper ($3 tickets), slightly more cramped seats, censored curse words, and a ten minute intermission. We even bought popcorn and pop, but I managed to spill almost the entire pop on Tim during the movie and then knock over the bucket of popcorn while trying to help him dry off! Sigh. I replaced the popcorn during intermission. 

It could have been any weekend at home. Well, except for Holi. Holi is the Hindu festival of spring, colors, and love. I’m sure you’ve seen pictures of multi-colored people throwing bright powders on each other. We read that most of those images are often not even from India, as the holiday has spread with Hindu populations worldwide. We looked for a celebration in Delhi, but we mostly found music festivals advertised to foreigners that weren’t too appealing. We decided to just see what would come. 

The night before we started noticing a few people covered in colored powder and had a few water balloons thrown at us from nearby balconies. The morning of Holi around 10:00 am we dressed mostly in black and a sacrificial white kurti just in case and headed out to get coffee. Most of the shops were closed and the sidewalks fairly quiet. A few more water balloons splashed at our feet and one mid-30s man was in a color fight with some kids, and he ran at us and sprayed us with a can of colored foam and some purple powder, shouting “happy Holi!” before running away. We thought that was about it until we followed some music to a nearby playground and saw a roiling neighborhood party. Crazy colors, water guns, and music. We were looking on amused when one of the dads invited us in. As we walked in they asked permission before gently dabbing our faces with color and saying “Happy Holi”. Then the kids targeted us with water guns and powder and all hell broke loose. Obviously we had to fight back! They offered us beer, samosas, and sweet almond drinks. We played with the kids and chatted some with the older crowd. Around noon, thoroughly rainbowed, we thanked our hosts and headed home to clean up. One of the ladies explained that the neighborhood parties would wind down and everyone would go home and sleep in the early afternoon and then the city would mostly return to normal by evening. We were grateful to have been invited in to share in the experience!

Jaisalmer – Camel Safari




March 18, 2019 

“We’re all going on a camel safarrriii!!”– Belfat, our singing camel guide. 

We took an early morning bus into Jaisalmer, sharing a small cabin maybe 4’x6’. by 3’ high for six hours, which was mostly pleasant except for the pungent smell of cleaning supplies. Though I can think of worse things to smell! After a nap and some reading we arrived mid-day and skipped past the touts (there were a lot), walking the kilometer to Jaisalmer Fort. We wound our way through various gates and alleys to our hotel at the back of the fort. Jaisalmer is the oldest living fort, meaning people still live and work inside. It was pretty awesome to be hanging out in an ancient (not ruined?) ruin built in 1155 AD. We spent the afternoon wandering through the fort, checking on our camel safari tour (pre-booked with Trotters, a local company), and packing for the early morning ride. We ate dinner up on a rooftop at the back of the fort with a nice sunset view. 
View from our hotel window.
We walked down to the office at 6:00 am the next morning, locked our packs in a cabinet, and were driven about 20 km west of Jaisalmer (only 40 km from Pakistan!) with another couple where we ate a quick breakfast of coffee, boiled eggs, toast, jam, bananas and oranges cooked over small campfire on some dunes. The couple had booked a private tour so took off. Apparently one of our the camels had run away the previous night chasing some female camel, so our guide was out looking for it. We met him in the jeep and as he still hadn’t found the runaway (appropriately named Rambo), he led us on foot for the first few hours before we took a break for lunch and a siesta. They hobble the camels at night by tying their front legs together, but I guess they can still cover some serious ground when determined. 

Riding a camel quickly gets tiring pretty fast, especially for those of us with no riding experience. Camels are quite tall, so we were sitting about 7’ up. The saddles are wide and without stirrups, which really works your inner thighs, trying to remain steady during their rocking gait. Hold tight! After two hours of riding in the morning we were ready for a long break, and we wiled away about 4 hours of the mid-day heat eating lunch, drinking chai, and reading in the shade. Our guide’s buddy found Rambo the camel and brought him round. Our guide cooked lunch over a small fire, making chapati, veg curry, rice, and chai. Late afternoon we headed off through the scrub desert, eventually making it to the nearby Bigi Dunes for a pleasant dinner and evening at the Trotter’s camp. Tim drank an ice cold beer brought up by a local from a nearby village and we watched some dung beetles and local puppies as the sun set. We slept under the stars and a nearly full moon with a few thick blankets to keep us warm. Another quick breakfast the next morning and we rode back to the road where we met back up with a jeep to take us back to Jaisalmer, stopping at Khaba Fort on the way back, which was underwhelming. 

We showered and repacked at a hostel associated with Trotters, then ate lunch and relaxed on the fort wall drinking a milkshake. We enjoyed the camel safari, but our favorite part was sleeping under the stars on the sand dunes; the actual camel riding was a bit rough and monotonous, much more tiring than horse rides. At least we weren’t spat on! 

Our adventures in Jaisalmer almost complete, we went to our bus stop to check on our overnight bus to Delhi only to learn that the bus had been canceled. WTF! We had booked it a few weeks back and the travel agency never bothered to tell us that they’d canceled the bus due to Holi. We weren’t sure whether to trust the guy outside the bus stop telling us all this, but he seemed to have the right business card and he didn’t want anything or offer any services, so after reviewing our options we decided on an overnight 18 hour train which thankfully had seats left in 2AC class. We lost nine hours, six at the station and another three on the train, but it didn’t cost us anything and there’s free Google-sponsored wifi at the station, so it could have been worse. Exhausted from the safari and the late night, we slept much of the way as we trained back across Rajasthan into Delhi.

Camel Safari

Siesta. I'm good at this!
My favorite camel Ali Baba. Camels are goofy.
Busy busy dung beetles.
Rambo! What a stud!
Sunset chai
 
Moonset, 4am
There's stars in this picture. Guess you need to open it up.

 Jaisalmer Fort


Kids playing hopscotch

Jodhpur – The Blue City


March 16, 2019

Our train to Jodhpur was an uneventful six hours, then we caught an Uber to our hotel near Mehrangarh Fort. The rickshaw drivers tried to overcharge as usual, asking 200 rupees to ride in a rickshaw when Uber was only asking 50. When we started walking away they came down to 150 and eventually 80, running after us as we walked away. Rideshare apps are great when they work (i.e. when the driver actually shows up). 

The huge Fort, imposing and set on a cliff, dominates the Jodhpur skyline. After a relaxing morning spent reading guide books and travel blogs we walked up the steep and narrow alleys for (yet another) fort and palace tour. Mehrangarh was built in 1459 and the guide boasted that the fort never fell to attackers. The exhibits were great, a kind of combination of Amber Fort and City Palace in Jaipur. We spent a few hours listening to the audioguide while walking through the fort and palace, learning some crazy things about Rajput culture, like Jauhar (mass self immolation). The Rajputs were a war-faring people who believed in “Victory or Death!”. When a city fell to attackers, the women would commit mass self immolation so they wouldn’t be captured, thereby preserving their honor. Additionally, when a Rajput king died in battle his queen (well, all his wives) would self immolate on his funeral pyre, “making no sound as they burned to death”. D-: The queens would leave red hand prints near the gate of the Fort as they exited for the last time. We also learned opium was a pretty central part of the culture too, so maybe that helped with all the dying. 

A woman venerates the hand prints of past queens

After the Fort we walked out the back side into the actual Blue City region of Jodhpur. There was definitely more blue here than the region near the Clock Tower Market where we stayed, and the streets were a lot quieter. The blue was originally indigo, which signified the house of a Brahmin (upper caste/religious clergy). Indigo was a natural insect repellent and the color kept the house cooler. Now anyone can paint their house blue, and many do. We eventually found a rooftop restaurant open for a late lunch before winding our way back to our hotel. Later in the evening around 8:00 pm we ate at a street-side omelet shop with cheap and decent omelet sandwiches, drank some chai and then wandered to the Sardar Market where the stalls were being disassembled and packed away and the Ghanta Ghar clock tower was brightly with a splash of colored lights before heading to bed. 

Our next day was similarly relaxed. While walking around looking for a cheap lunch we learned just how quickly the atmosphere changes when we left the main roads and touristy areas. One road was under construction and we were told with gestures that another seemingly open road was maybe closed. We kept getting swarmed by groups of kids. It didn’t feel hostile, but we also didn't belong and were causing a bit of a ruckus. We headed back to the main road and got lunch.

At another rooftop restaurant for dinner (lots of roofs – I mean, that view!), we had a fascinating conversation with the owner. The restaurant was on top of a nicer boutique hotel that didn’t have any reviews but did have a reasonably priced menu, and after asking we learned that the Indian owner specifically doesn’t list on Google Maps or Trip Advisor because he doesn’t trust the reviews and he also doesn’t want Indian tourists to show up. He said they would hang out at the cafe for hours without spending much money and get drunk and disturb the other guests, and he was most interested in keeping his Booking.com score up as the hotel was very well rated. We had read restaurant reviews suggesting that some places were racist against Indians and we wondered about that, now we know it’s definitely a thing. He also asked us how we liked India and whether we felt safe. He want on to explain that Rajasthani men are very well mannered – they don’t touch women that belong to other men. Cool? After I posited that I prefer not to be owned he backpedaled a little. Not a language barrier thing, either, just cultural. On the Fort tour we also learned about purdah - the practice in certain Muslim and Hindu societies of screening women from "the lusty gaze of men" by means of curtains or veils. I know this is just my Western perspective, but there are two solutions to that problem, and only one of them involves curtains.

Camel parking
 

Clock Tower Market from afar